Thursday, September 30, 2010

Change

I'm not much of a fan of change, I have a problem with it, I find it difficult to face, well not always, of course, I’m happy when change is positive or it is in my favour, unfair I know but recently, this problem of mine made me think of what it actually is, can be, could be, would be, and was. Several things crossed my mind.

Change is-

Inevitable
Bad
hurts
Perspective
Destiny
Chance
Fate
In a piggy bank
Plastic surgery
Natural
Not your fault
Just happens
Takes getting used to
Sucks
Good
Sly
In your face
Ignorant
Not biased
Needs a second
Needs a hundred years
Powerful
A mystery
Manipulates
In the weather
A virtue
To learn
Anticipated
Avoided
Dependent
Independent
The future
Age
Scary
Revolution
Transition
Inspiring
Motivating
An idea
Constant
Variable
Evolution
A noun
Annoying
Necessary
Healthy
Entertaining
Elaborate
A substitute
Exchange
New
A plan
Diversion
A holiday
A need
Erratic
Can save an entire planet

Please feel free to add some more.



Friday, September 24, 2010

I don't know if it's just me or do other people find themselves in a fix when someone answers their phone calls without the more commonly anticipated 'Hello!'

For example, I called someone today for the first time on her mobile and she answered the phone with her name, no greetings. I was more prepared for 'Hello! Is this Mrs. Preeti?' So when she answers the phone saying 'Preeti', I'm totally lost for words, and I get uncomfortable to directly say, 'Hello Preeti, this is Pranjali here, remember me?' You have to directly take the plunge without much of a warm up.  All my words come out jumbled, two sentences get mixed up, the one that I'm prepared for becomes a misfitting part of the new sentence that I'm thinking of in my head along with being uncomfortable! A mess!

Not many people do this and maybe I'm just not used to it, it's a matter of habit or even a social code to greet someone with a hello first isn't it? It's so easy to falter and stammer silly when you face something you don't expect! It always happens with me when I call an office, a call centre or a clinic. Receptionists usually start with 'Dr Gandhi's clinic!' On another occasion I called someone who was a very 'Mi Marathi' sort of person who answered the phone saying 'Namaskar' and I said 'Hello!' I sound like quite an idiot on such occasions. I should try using my name for a hello sometime to find out if I'm the only one with a problem!

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Needle-women

Any festival in India is by definition a promise of colour, lights, energy and a mess of a lot of people. So when a French boy comes to my city during the Ganesh Festival, to show him around the festivities is protocol and a cause for people to say, 'You're mad, you're going to the see Dagdusheth on a Sunday, moreover in the evening!' But I do find my way around and such things don't bother me or my friend Sasha much. In fact we enjoy it. So we set off, went to places we hadn't been to in our own city. It involved a lot of walking, going in the wrong lanes, loud music, rangolis, different decors, each came with a different story to up Ganesha's or Shivaji’s glory and people on the roads like a river of bobbing heads, dispersing into little lanes and us being caught in it, trying very hard to stick together and stick to the right path. After we finally were done seeing the galore we were on our way back, little did I know all the seeing wasn't over yet.
I believe we Indians can make a profession or a living out of anything, everything and anywhere, so to see vendors selling their stuff at every corner is no surprise and one can expect the most bizarre things in motion. But what I saw was plain, simple shocking. Almost like I had all this while been kept away, or had only seen such things at a distance, on television or read about it in articles, but there it was, in my face.
 What was it?
It was a machine, that came out of a little, old tin box, a bundle of rusty metal pieces tied up in loose wires ending in a fat, broken NIPPO battery, which weakly powered a needle. Yes, it was tattooing machine.
 It was a flourishing business set up by these women, a whole line of them sitting along the road in one of the most crowded areas in the city offering a wide range of designs. There were various crosses, OMs, hearts with arrows, with initials, the typical. Initially we thought they were just making those henna tattoos but we heard a peculiar buzzing sound that drove us closer to them.
Let me describe to you how it was done. This one man came to get his name tattooed on his arm, the lady first applied Parachute Coconut Oil on his skin, dipped her buzzing needle in a small, green, plastic bottle of black liquid and pierced the needle into his skin in unskilled fashion to scribble his name, and also, the battery kept going on and off. The last step, she smeared turmeric on the tattoo, turmeric which is supposed to be yellow but was actually brown.
People kept coming to get it done, not one of them was unoccupied. I went to one of the ladies and asked her how much for a 1 inch cross, her answer was, Rs 40, a bigger one with a dragon and flames and the works? Rs120. And clearly these rates were exaggerated considering I was with a European by my side. Horrifying

An unhygienic HIV/ AIDS spreading, money- making, unaware, uneducated racket. I had never seen anything like this before, IT was the first time I came so close to it. I cannot believe I saw those 10 people in front of my eyes, putting their lives, their family’s life at such a cheap stake. But then again what can be done? Educate them? Then what? In a poverty laden country like ours convince them to give up their income, it’ll work? Talk to the people who get it done? You think they’ll believe? You think they’ll listen if you or I went to talk to them? How many of them can we educate and eradicate? Most of us don’t even know such practices exist around our own neighborhoods. You think these people who consider themselves to be enduring and macho will have the strength to accept truths like they have a good 100% chance of being infected or already are by a lady on the road behind a temple during a festival, while giving an insignificant test of love? From the most serious questions to the trivial ones, how does one respond to situations like these?

It angered me but then what? I’m posting it on my blog, but to what conclusion or expectation from myself or you readers, I don’t know.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Finally.

Materialising my plan, after over 8 months of only just meddling with the idea of starting a blog, has FINALLY  happened. Initiating it began with finding a suitable name which took close to a 'forever,' has left me pretty satisfied, FINALLY. Ingenuous Chatter- sums up what this blog will be, ingenuous for it'll be a sincere expression, chatter- well cause I talk that much and have a lot to say almost most of the time. No specific subject matter as such. A successful day I'd say, didn't procrastinate and now have a blog. FINALLY!